Lo & JJ

We're JJ and Lo, and these are our sons, Miles (6) and Wesley (2.5). We know you're in the midst of making some really important decisions, and we want you to know you're doing awesome. No one has ever been you, carrying this child (or children!), experiencing this pregnancy in these unique circumstances. So let go of any pressure to "get this right" and instead, embrace this opportunity to create beautiful futures both you and your little one(s). You should know there are a BUNCH of people in Texas and in California – our family and friends – who are praying for you right now, that you would feel peace, and that you would have the strength to press on and be confident in your decision, whatever that may be. You have our highest respect for choosing life for this little one. You've already demonstrated your great love for him or her with that single choice. You are bringing new life and new hope into the world... how cool is that?! You got this! JJ + Lo

Meet JJ – JJ was born & raised in Texas, and attended college in Oklahoma. He’s one of 7 siblings, most of whom are married and live locally with their families. Family gatherings now number 25+, and it’s the most wonderful, joyful chaos! JJ works as a custom home builder, helping families build their dream homes. Miles & Wesley LOVE visiting JJ’s job sites & think their dad has the coolest job EVER! JJ is a jack of all trades – if it involves being outdoors & a proficient level of athleticism, you can bet he’s done it and is really good at it! He is seen by our friends as an easygoing, fun-loving, welcoming guy who makes people feel cared-for. He is always calm, cool, & collected, and is never one to complain. He accepts challenges, setbacks, and successes in stride, and is open for whatever God has for him in each new day. Meet Lo – Lo was born & raised in Southern California, and moved to Texas after college graduation. With a business degree & a background in fashion, she helped build a home & fashion accessories company that employed refugee women resettled in Texas from all over the world. While Lo loved her work, it became clear that being with Miles full-time was the best choice for our family. Lo loves being with the boys full-time! Teaching them to swim, exploring wildlife at the lake nearby, doing art projects, baking, reading, playing... Lo loves being an active, present mom, and can’t wait to add another little person to this party! Meet Miles – Miles is an absolute joy! He is so much fun, always tries to get a laugh, and is the world's best big brother. He has adored Wesley since day one, and has a spirit of leadership & inclusiveness that gives us confidence in adding another brother or sister to his watchful care. Miles is very active, strong, & capable. He loves being outside and is often swimming, exploring the lake & creek behind our house, or riding his skateboard/scooter/bike/motorcycle. Miles is SMART. He doesn’t miss a beat and is very emotionally intuitive. He loves books and is working very hard to learn how to ready by himself! Meet Wesley – Wesley is a hoot! He is silly, strong-willed, and independent. He loves helping & having a job to do. He is incredibly tender with his stuffed animals & dolls, making us sure he is absolutely going to love having a little brother or sister to take care of. Wesley is strong in body & in spirit – if he has an idea in his head, he will work hard to see it through. The desire to keep up with his active big brother combined with his sheer physical size amounts to one formidable little dude!